I give to charities every year, and I am about as conservative as they come on this board.
Nobody I know says "fuck those who cannot take care of themselves." We say "fuck those who refuse to take care of themselves". There is a big difference there.
The Red Cross is one organization I do not give money to. They are racist against Jews for one thing (refusal to admit the Red Magen David), and they are corrupt for another. They even have a history of shielding Islamic Jihad and Hamas members from the IDF. Fuck the Red Cross.
The Salvation Army is a much better organization.
Arioch, you make a lot of generalisations about people but can't back them up with any facts. The only failure of character here is yours for making dumb accusations and assumptions about others.