need more info than your supplyin' man. We have no idea how she would react to certain answers and shit but in all honesty if I was you id tell her straight up. If that shitdoesn't get trimmed.... we ant fuckin. Then again if you don't have control in the relationship shell prolly drop your ass onto a curb or some shit. If you think you can be honest with her tell her before you end up sufficating from hair balls =( Plus man that shit makes it sweaty and nasty as fuck down there, don't put up with that shit....... go on strike!