you have no idea how deaths are reported, you have no idea if he was KIA or in training, or even in the GWOT. There are a lot of factors that go into this. you may wanna do some research before you go making comments like that. Also a little consideration for her would be nice, cause now you've put her on the spot where she needs to explain the death of her husband, which I doubt she wants to discuss details with a bunch of total strangers on the web.