Not stacking units is fine and it doesn't make games longer at all. You should be playing by the MP rules that most players use and you're games should last anywhere from 10 mins to 3 hours.

- Pangaea
- Legendary Start
- Max Turns 100
- Disable Start Bias
- Enable Turn Timer
- New Random Seed
- No Ancient Ruins
- No Barbs

You should join the ladder league at www.civplayers.com and join the steam group/chat. You can find a lot of MP games. If anyone wants to play a game hit me up.